Well I spoke too soon. After no problems once T got home for work and feeling things were ok I simply asked "how are you feeling about us?" That was it, he went off saying he didn't feel any different etc and it was none of my business what he thinks. He hasn't spoken to me since. He's in another room on his phone texting so I guess he will be in a mood again until the next chapter unfolds.
I can't tell if he's just playing some game to buy himself time or if he's genuine. I don't know if I should just leave and call it quits or suffer through whatever is going on. It's just so hard when there is no communication.